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The best romantic comedies include When Harry Met Sally, Notting Hill, Crazy Rich Asians, 10 Things I Hate About You, Hitch, Bridget Jones's Diary, Crazy Stupid Love, and Love Actually. Most are on Netflix or Prime Video.
The rom-com gets dismissed too often. Done well, it's one of the hardest genres to execute — you need chemistry, timing, a script that earns its emotional moments, and two leads who make you believe in them. The films below all clear that bar. Some are classics, some are modern, but every one of them has the thing that matters: you root for these people.
The 12 best romantic comedies

When Harry Met Sally
1989 · 1h 36m
Can men and women ever just be friends? Harry and Sally test the question over 12 years. Nora Ephron's screenplay is the gold standard of rom-com writing — funny, honest, and genuinely insightful about how people avoid what they want. The deli scene remains perfect.

Notting Hill
1999 · 2h 4m
A London bookshop owner accidentally falls for the world's most famous film star. Richard Curtis and Roger Michell created the definitive British rom-com. Hugh Grant and Julia Roberts have effortless chemistry, and the supporting cast is extraordinary.

10 Things I Hate About You
1999 · 1h 37m
A modern retelling of The Taming of the Shrew set in a Seattle high school. Heath Ledger serenading Julia Stiles in the bleachers is one of cinema's great romantic gestures. Sharp, funny, and significantly smarter about gender than most 90s teen films.

Crazy Rich Asians
2018 · 2h
An NYU economics professor accompanies her boyfriend to Singapore for his best friend's wedding — and discovers his family is one of the wealthiest in Asia. Visually spectacular, genuinely funny, and with Constance Wu and Henry Golding making a genuinely compelling lead pair.

Bridget Jones's Diary
2001 · 1h 37m
Bridget Jones documents her chaotic year in her diary. Renée Zellweger, Hugh Grant, Colin Firth. The love triangle is properly worked out — you genuinely can't be sure who she'll choose. Richard Curtis again, doing what he does best.

Hitch
2005 · 1h 58m
A professional 'date doctor' coaches men on how to woo the women they love — and then falls for a celebrity gossip columnist who is determined to expose him. Will Smith and Eva Mendes have genuine spark. Funny throughout and more emotionally honest than most.

Crazy, Stupid, Love
2011 · 1h 58m
A recently separated father (Steve Carell) is coached by a smooth-talking stranger (Ryan Gosling) in how to date again. Three intersecting love stories, each well-drawn. The plot twist is genuinely surprising. The cast — Carell, Gosling, Emma Stone, Julianne Moore — is exceptional.

Love Actually
2003 · 2h 15m
Ten loosely connected love stories play out in London in the five weeks before Christmas. Richard Curtis' most ambitious film — the anthology structure means some stories work better than others, but the ones that work (Knightley/Lincoln, Rickman/Thompson) are exceptional.

Four Weddings and a Funeral
1994 · 1h 57m
A charming, commitment-phobic Englishman keeps encountering the same American woman at social events. Hugh Grant's star-making role and Andie MacDowell make a great pair. The funeral scene, with John Hannah reading W.H. Auden, is one of cinema's most moving moments.

Legally Blonde
2001 · 1h 36m
A sorority president follows her ex to Harvard Law School to win him back — and discovers she's actually very good at the law. Reese Witherspoon makes Elle Woods one of cinema's most compelling comic protagonists. Funny, warm, and quietly feminist.

Clueless
1995 · 1h 37m
A popular Beverly Hills teenager uses her talent for matchmaking on everyone around her — oblivious to what's right in front of her. Amy Heckerling's adaptation of Emma is still one of the sharpest teen comedies ever made. Alicia Silverstone is perfect.

My Best Friend's Wedding
1997 · 1h 45m
A food critic realises she's in love with her best friend on the eve of his wedding to someone else — and sets about sabotaging it. Julia Roberts, Dermot Mulroney, Cameron Diaz. The film is sharper than it looks because the protagonist is genuinely the villain.
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Average IMDb rating
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Films on Netflix
4
Richard Curtis films
5
Films from the 90s
Which rom-com fits tonight?
- Perfect date night pick — Crazy, Stupid, Love (funny and moving in equal measure)
- Classic you haven't revisited in years — When Harry Met Sally, Notting Hill
- For a teenage throwback — 10 Things I Hate About You, Clueless, Legally Blonde
- Something visually spectacular — Crazy Rich Asians
- Under 100 minutes — When Harry Met Sally (96m), 10 Things (97m), Legally Blonde (96m)
- Christmas viewing — Love Actually (though watch it fresh, not on loop)
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